Dating is no easy thing, this is double for same-sex relationships. There are all sorts of rules, landmines, and other things to watch out for. So while you’re cruising the popular apps like Her, Hinge, or even Tinder, it can be nerve-racking to match with someone and not know what to do next.

Here at Rouges, we want you to live life passionately and for many that means finding the right partner, so while our staff is curiously lacking in a lesbian expert, we’ve scoured the internet for you and have found just the person to set you on the right path!

Here’s Lesbian Dating 101: